Many of you are making plans for how to ring into the new year. And many of you are looking forward to leaving behind what 2016 had to offer.
How can we go about this year differently than the rest? Set resolutions that we won't follow through on? Forget everything that happened?
Why we don't try something different and see if it works out?
It's not a clean slate
Some people go into the new year thinking they can "start over." But this concept may be why we're let down so quickly as the days start to progress.
Yes we have a chance to have new perspectives and choose new paths but we carry over key elements of previous years. For a tangible example, our fiscal year runs from May to April. Review season starts in June. So even if I wanted a clean slate, I still have four months to meet the expectations that were set in the beginning.
I'm not trying to be negative. If we create a clear picture of what's new, it'll be easier to take on what the year will bring.
Decide what to carry over
It is a new year after all. We can't deny that there will be things that move with us but we can decide what we want to focus on.
We may have had bad times. We may have had let downs. We may have ended relationships. Let's leave that in 2016. There's no point in sulking or dwelling on what didn't go our way in the previous year.
When we pack our 2017 bag, we put our lessons in there; our happy memories; our new skills or behaviors; and of course any nice gifts you may have received for Christmas. If we learn to let go the negativity we allow room for more positivity in the new year.
Set realistic goals
Resolutions are overrated, on December 31st, that is. What short term goals do you have for yourself? Where are you on achieving your long term goals? By assessing your progress, you're clearly able to close or continue goals you've already made for yourself. This way it doesn't become a huge undertaking.
It is Saturday night. We'll wake up tomorrow and enjoy our Sunday morning coffee, watching the rare rain in the desert. What changed from last Saturday? It's raining out. Oh and the year you log in the books.
As you reflect tonight over the last year, do yourself a favor and assess how you want the new year to go. Remember to pack your bags of the positive items that will give you the strength to conquer your goals in the new year.
You own your destiny. If New Year's Eve is a way for you recharge, then take advantage of it. We say 2017 will be great- let's make it happen.